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Just thinking about the future
We have had this discussion many times about me and him having kids, and many of those times I have said No; other times I have taken it into consideration maybe one or two it really depends on what is going in our lives. I have come to realize when you are in a committed relationship there are things that you will have to give up or make changes for the person you want to spend your life with. With saying that, someone is going to have to compromise with having kids or not having them...
Reasons why I shouldn’t be a mother
Major reason..
-I was traumatized as a kid
From that horrible experience this has left me a mean, cold hearted, selfish, depressed, just a mentally jacked up person!
Yes this how I feel and I would not put another person through my horrible experience as a child.
You see this is how I look at it being a parent is for bettering a child’s future and me with all my mental flaws will not do that very thing. It will only make more jacked up kids like me.
So I guess im better off not being a mother just a LOVER to some gender!
(*Also me being a bisexual & I just find it terrifying having kids)
2 comments:
Bisexual and homosexual couples adopt kids all the time. I mean regardless if yu raise yur child the perfect way he/she can still get screwed up by society. I was taught sex was for marriage but I knew hella shit about it when I was in kindergarten so yea we learn from different sources. Don't fret...wait til yu are a parent.
haha okay
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